"Ubi caritas et amor, Deus ibi est." Where true charity and love abide, God is dwelling there. Jesus told the disciples, "I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another." (John 13:34-35) Define love. I mean, I would think I just need to accept others and not be rude. You don't mean care for them or help them do you?